SIMAYJOELLE

They call Me Joëlle ...

KNOW THY SELF.

So as I end a very long spiritually and mentally exhausting day …

This message of ‘Know thyself’ comes to me as I review a phone conversation with another life coach I was virtually introduced to a few days before via two men I have had interesting relationships with.

They both unknowingly introduced me to the same woman and do not even know each other.

Our conversation was what I thought suppose to be an exchange of understanding the coaching industry. Me as a newbie, her as a veteran, or so I thought…. In reality that was not quite the case and with less than 2 minutes on the phone she went right in trying to counsel me without having an idea as to who I was, where I was in my journey, and several assumptions were made and ideas insinuated.

At one point I gently but firmly hated the direction the conversation was going, why? Not because I was self conscious, insecure, or uncomfortable. Well no I take that back I was Uncomfortable, with the story being written, why? Because the story was not complete, nor was it true of me, I am not easily pegged into one, two or three dimensions. Now some people are, Actually many people are like that but mostly because they have not found a way to express themselves Spherically.

I am Spherical. Meaning I am going in multiple directions at once. And I am whole. Not broken, looking to be fixed. I know myself.

As a coach I am not here to Fix anyone. I am here to help you raise your own natural gifting and experience your own abilities and talents. With techniques, listening, and observing YOU, your words, your silence, patterns in your life, patterns or inconsistencies in what you say and what you do, or your family.

It is not wise to jump to assumptions or conclusions. And maybe on her part she was very excited and misunderstood something I was saying. However, in general I did not feel she was completely listening and sitting with me in a space of communication.

A huge lesson of the type of coaching style I want to have. Not instructional necessarily, but guiding and gentle initially. Maybe after time and several sessions, I know the type of challenge you can handle but in general I want to be a gentle but still a firm force encouraging you to rise to Your own occasion. Helping you as a Person to guide yourself, hear your self, and know yourself / Thy Self.

To help heal and restore yourself to Wholeness.

One of my favorite images is the Healer who learns by self healing. Chiron. That is my style. Not business, not marketing, not gimmicky, not by force, nor by might but by My own Spirit will I teach and draw people to me to help them be themselves.

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THE POWER OF INSIGHT

INSIGHT

Definition: “the capacity to gain an accurate and deep intuitive understanding of a person or thing.”

I wrote a piece six months ago that I only published recently on my webpage, called “Know Thy Self”.

What strikes me as Amazing and total Awe is how I wrote that piece in reflection of a quick interaction I had with a person months ago ONLY to be six months down the road – today, having another interaction with a completely different person and yet the Truth I unveiled back then blew a huge hole of confirmation right through this persons bullshit at lies today.

How would I have known that an observation I made months ago that I took the tine to process and write out would be revisited today, and to show that my response was consistent because right should always meet wrong CONSISTENTLY.

I will speak on a professional level for this post. The power of insight in the workplace can empower a person to trust in themselves, their experience, their expertise and at the end of the day, their gut or intuition. If it does not feel right, do not agree. If in your experience people who operate this way or that are not fair dealers …. ABORT before it is too late, or REPOSITION yourself. If your expertise is being belittled overlooked or downright ignored and it bothers you because it will affect your ability to work well, ADDRESS it immediately.  You have worked and given your time and life to be able to work as best in peace and smoothness, long gone are the days where ‘working yourself to death’ was noble for people who do not care, and do not respect you no matter what ‘level; you are in comparison to them.  Self respect is Universal.

Insight is like a two fold apparition it unveils the unknown at the moment for the future and it recalls the past to affirm lessons in retrospect.

It reveals that you had foresight all along. You knew of the unknown as a known before you even arrived at it. And now that you have arrived, gone through and passed through on the other side – your decision to honor your experience, intuition or expertise was wise and will be met with a sense of ease, or your decision to dishonor those aspects will send you a swift reminder as to why you should always honor them.

Which in my opinion is why it is a very good and a wise thing to document your discoveries and thought processes daily if possible. JOURNAL! Especially when you have a great revelation or an epiphany of how things work in your life and around you. Do not waste much time to get into the details of your insights and discoveries as to either retain them, recall them later or be reminded as to why you went down that road in the first place.

Insight is a lovely friend who gently encourages and nudges you in the right direction. Lean in on him.


KNOW THY SELF

So as I end a very long spiritually and mentally exhausting day …

This message of ‘Know thyself’ comes to me as I review a phone conversation with another life coach I was virtually introduced to a few days before via two men I have had interesting relationships with.

They both unknowingly introduced me to the same woman and do not even know each other.

Our conversation was what I thought suppose to be an exchange of understanding the coaching industry. Me as a newbie, her as a veteran, or so I thought…. In reality that was not quite the case and with less than 2 minutes on the phone she went right in trying to counsel me without having an idea as to who I was, where I was in my journey, and several assumptions were made and ideas insinuated.

At one point I gently but firmly hated the direction the conversation was going, why? Not because I was self conscious, insecure, or uncomfortable. Well no I take that back I was Uncomfortable, with the story being written, why? Because the story was not complete, nor was it true of me, I am not easily pegged into one, two or three dimensions. Now some people are, Actually many people are like that but mostly because they have not found a way to express themselves Spherically.

I am Spherical. Meaning I am going in multiple directions at once. And I am whole. Not broken, looking to be fixed. I know myself.

As a coach I am not here to Fix anyone. I am here to help you raise your own natural gifting and experience your own abilities and talents. With techniques, listening, and observing YOU, your words, your silence, patterns in your life, patterns or inconsistencies in what you say and what you do, or your family.

It is not wise to jump to assumptions or conclusions. And maybe on her part she was very excited and misunderstood something I was saying. However, in general I did not feel she was completely listening and sitting with me in a space of communication.

A huge lesson of the type of coaching style I want to have. Not instructional necessarily, but guiding and gentle initially. Maybe after time and several sessions, I know the type of challenge you can handle but in general I want to be a gentle but still a firm force encouraging you to rise to Your own occasion. Helping you as a Person to guide yourself, hear your self, and know yourself / Thy Self.

To help heal and restore yourself to Wholeness.

One of my favorite images is the Healer who learns by self healing. Chiron. That is my style. Not business, not marketing, not gimmicky, not by force, nor by might but by My own Spirit will I teach and draw people to me to help them be themselves.

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